Sometimes we'll have sex with no words, no talking whatsoever. Those are usually the nights he initiates it. When I initiate, there is a lot of talk and it's usually a lot more, um...rougher? Definitely more intense. When he reaches out to me it's more...idk...slow motion maybe, less intense, still as satisfying...he makes the focus more about just us (don't ask). Tonight was such a night. We finished and still with no words, we each rolled to our sides of the bed....Two minutes later (if that):
Me: Hey, you know I love you right?
Him: You know I love you as well, right?
Me: A blind person would see that you love me. Thanks for loving me.
We said nothing else, I thought he was asleep...I'm sure maybe 15 minutes had gone by...
Me, rolling over: What?
Him: We've got this.
Me: I know.
I don't know that, but it's nice to be loved...It's nice to FEEL it and more importantly it's nice to feel secure in that love.